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Day 13: ad astra per aspera

Unless you knew what to look for, you wouldn’t notice that my 12 year old daughter has cerebral palsy.  But a lot of people don’t know what CP is, and most assume that it means she has a mental handicap.  Even a few of her teachers, who should know better, tend to make the mistake that she must have some kind of mental incapacity because she had a brain injury when she was born.  And when the doctor told us two days into her life that she’d had a stroke, of course we assumed the worst — that…See More
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Butterfly Tornado commented on Butterfly Tornado's blog post Day 11: miss adventure
"Aw, shucks.  Thanks, Pamela."
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Pamela Madsen commented on Butterfly Tornado's blog post Day 11: miss adventure
"Beautiful!!!!! AGAIN! : )"
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Pamela Madsen posted a blog post

The Female Body Dis-Connect

Dear Shameless Beauty,I'm reading "What Do Women Want?" By Daniel Bergner. I think that everyone should read this book, whether you are male or female.And not that I am such a smarty pants, but none of it is news to me. What this book is all about, is why I am doing what I am doing. Because I have lived it, and figured it out AND life is so much better now.Let me sum it up for you. What this book contends is that women want to feel their bodies unfettered, and most of them don't.We have been…See More
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Butterfly Tornado posted blog posts
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Butterfly Tornado commented on Rainee's blog post big words
"I'm glad you wrote this. I was wondering what the significance of the butterfly was to you. Go  Rainee, go."
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Butterfly Tornado posted a blog post

Day 10: two poems

Low Tide Adrift at low tide,Haze cloistered our vessel. Your lamplight hunted AquariusIn the mudbanks. I was a water lily,Naked at the stem. A watermark encircled my throat.  =============================================================Knock Three Times you said to knockand I did not three timesone hundred thousand and counting and the pipes keep drowning out the knockson my behalf stupid fucking pipes   See More
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Butterfly Tornado commented on Butterfly Tornado's blog post Day 9: initiation, accommodation, compromise
"Pamela:  Wouldn't that be deliciously dreamy?  But...This July, I'm taking my kids on our annual summer vacation without him because he can't get away from work.  A couple's retreat doesn't compute!  (And…"
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Pamela Madsen commented on Butterfly Tornado's blog post Day 9: initiation, accommodation, compromise
"Have you thought about attending a couple's retreat with him? Do you think he might be open?"
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mlg commented on Butterfly Tornado's blog post Day 9: initiation, accommodation, compromise
"It sounds like you are both in separate spaces, albeit living together and married.  Are you perhaps more roommates/friends with benefits?"
Saturday
Butterfly Tornado posted a blog post

Day 9: initiation, accommodation, compromise

I struggle with these three things in my sexual (and otherwise) relationship with my husband.  Initiation:  I found that if I don't initiate sex at the right time and in the right way, he is thrown off.  On a few occasions, I thought I'd surprise him.  He'd come home from work and I'd be waiting for him, naked.  Or, he asked me to record a video for him (back in the VHS days) and I inserted a strip tease in the middle of the show.  To me, this is a clear message:  I to get laid NOW.  And…See More
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Butterfly Tornado commented on Pamela Madsen's blog post Learning to Savor Pleasure
"Emergency becomes anticipation.  Urgency becomes a meditation on living.  Self-defeating binges become slow, healthy savoring.  But it's all easier said than done, when emergency, urgency and binge are so instinctive and within…"
Friday
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Day 8: steamy

I was at an art opening and overheard a conversation between a girlfriend and the gallery director.  My friend tends to speak very loudly because of a hearing impairment.  I think maybe she had also had a little wine, so she was saying whatever was on her mind.   "I worked in HOLLYWOOD for 10 years, and now I don't know what to do with myself," she practically yelled.  The director was visibly looking for an escape.  "You're AMAZING!  Look what you've done with this place!" she hollered.   The…See More
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Butterfly Tornado posted a blog post

Day 7: Butterfly Tornado

I was going to be less anonymous and use my real name when I signed up for the Shameless community, but then I thought I might be less candid if my name was attached to everything. Today, Shameless member Starlette Universe asked me where my name came from.  As promised, here's that explanation.  When I was in college, I studied butterflies on the prairie, and I have frequent, recurring dreams about tornados.  (I live in Kansas, and some people associate Kansas with a famous witch-killing…See More
Jun 12
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Butterfly Tornado commented on Starlette Universe's blog post My first time to really feel and ride my own transformation wave~ Cowabungaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
"Starlette,The answer to those questions are coming in my next blog post."
Jun 12
Starlette Universe commented on Starlette Universe's blog post My first time to really feel and ride my own transformation wave~ Cowabungaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
"Hey Butterfly Tornado; where did that name come from anyways?  I did go sober last August up until recently where I feel like I want to live in total spontaneity with my words, actions, food, sex, love, alcohol, and live that way always-…"
Jun 11
 

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Shameless is a private "gated" membership community - allowing us the chance to get to know each other, and enough privacy to talk about things that matter such as how do we jump start our lives, make friends with our bodies,  and develop more intimacy in our lives. 

 

Shameless  is about removing the obstacles to pleasure in our lives,
looking at how we are able to explore our sexuality within our own boundaries - and learning how to make friends with our desires.

What you will get with your membership, a one-time payment of $25:

1. Full access to our moderated message boards with the opportunity to ask Pamela Madsen questions

2. Inspirational, Exclusive Videos, Shameless Pod Cast Interviews, Private Blogs of Pamela's that are not published any place else!  Join Pamela, Sacred Intimates, Sexological Bodyworkers and Sex Educators for amazing Podcast Interviews, and exclusive videos that will guide you on your own Shameless Journey and equip you with your own Pleasure Tool Kit!

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